Tuesday, April 8, 2014

another post about my green tie guy

I was reading some old blog posts today. i am so glad i have levi in my life. even at my saddest, during really hard times... life is better with him by my side. Here's [a few reasons] why:

He is FUN!
Levi can make any situation fun & is always down to party
he gets on board with all my crazy ideas & helps push me to do them
He is an amazing dad. Not that I didn't expect that when I chose him...
but he's even better than I imagined he'd be.
He makes me laugh. Levi is REALLY, REALLY funny, you guys
he is my best friend.
I've never been able to open up to someone like I can Levi.
That says nothing about me [except maybe I'm a really private person}
it speaks volumes of Levi's ability to listen and make me feel heard
He is smokin' hott
He has so much patience. With himself, with me, with Eleanora, and with life
He has an unwavering faith in a really big God that is contagious

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

how to be 10% happier

Last week was glorious. We had a weather in the 70's, sunshine, and so much happiness!

Then Sunday we woke up to snow & rain & gray. bleh.

Also, incase you're like me and always wonder 
what is the proper way to spell Gray/Grey (in america) 
I saw a pin on Pinterest that made it all too easy. 
I wish my English tutor had shared this with me in college.

in America it's grAy in England it's grEy.

Easy, am I right? Don't say I never taught ya anything. 

I've been thinking a lot about humility and gratitude. I just finished reading 10% Happier (recommend it!) and one of the says something along the lines of humility being the cure for humiliation. I think that's so true. So, so, so true! This book is really interesting. I appreciated Dan Harris' thoughts on meditation and such. He's as big a skeptic about things as I am. I rarely take things for face value & I thoroughly enjoyed reading his experience.  


I'd also like to add that gratitude helps to extinguish uncomfortable or awkward situations. It takes some level of vulnerability to be grateful, so it makes us uncomfortable at times, but it does make things better & easier. 


anyway. Just a thought for you.



Tuesday, March 18, 2014

last week.

Is it really already Tuesday?! Levi's been going into work late, so he can see Eleanora for an hour each day, and we've been sleeping in passed 7:00am,
so my days have seemed to FLY by. I wake up and feel like it's already time for lunch!
The days go even quicker when Levi let's little ole me sleep in until 9:00 (when he leaves for work). 

We only have 1 car right now, so when I have things going on during the day that I need the car for I drive Levi to and from work.
That means I’m picking him up after 11:00 sometimes. The city never ceases to amaze me at night. It’s so still & beautiful.

 

(left) Eleanora has been playing Barbies lately – with Lightening McQueen & Mater. ;]
(right) Katie babysat Eleanora while I had a midwife appointment last week and then we spent a few hours hanging out at her house.

 
Eleanora is ever curious these days…

 

We attended a Tea Party and Eleanora had a BLAST.
Mostly she was excited to not have pretend liquid in her teapots & HELLO… cupcakes!!

 

When you’re 2 the whole world is your playground!

 

I just love my little family. My heart is bursting lately is appreciation for them.
I’m married to the most patient & resolved man I’ve ever met, and I get to squish the cutest little cheeks all day long. Two is, so far, my very favorite age.

Not without hard moments each day, life is pretty dang wonderful, ya know? I feel like I can do anything if I have these 2 by my side.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Aunties, Music, and Hedgehogs!

My sister, Katie, lives about 20 minutes south of us. It's been so fun to party with her and have an instant friend during this move. She's an awesome auntie to Eleanora and way cooler than I'll ever be. This last week she invited Eleanora and me (and Levi, but he had to work.. boo!) to a benefit concert for her school! She teaches at an amazing charter school & I was pumped to attend and see her school. She was so sweet to think of inviting us!



Then we found out she'd be emceeing the show! Woo! Even better!

It was so much fun to attend & see Katie in action. Eleanora was a CHAMP through the whole program. The show was a HIT! Trace Bundy performed (if you haven't heard or seen him --- CHECK HIM OUT HERE) and was amazing. He was a really cool guy, too. Eleanora had a blast dancing through the show and afterwards getting to meet Katie's class pet (Benny, the hedgehog). 

It was such a fun evening. But, I will say the most entertaining part of the night was the last time Katie was on stage and re-introducing Trace Bundy after the intermission. She said, "and now, you won't be seeing me again, because I will be turning the remainder of the night over to Ted Bundy" hahahahahaha! Everyone lost it! Especially Trace himself. He was laughing so hard and we all could not stop!

So, if you have an embarrassing moment happen just be glad it wasn't on stage, with a spotlight on you and 200 people (including coworkers and your boss) watching....

Monday, March 10, 2014

Depression & Anxiety.

I have seen countless posts on blogs, instagram, and various other social media outlets about depression. Since about the start of the new year I feel like, for whatever reason, people are opening up about their own dealings with depression & anxiety. And I am so glad!

Although I've never dealt with clinical depression myself (granted, I've been sad in my life, grieved, gone through really hard times... but never had a chemical imbalance that would classify as depression or anxiety), I have dealt with it very close to home many, many times. And my heart aches for those who think that depression is something they are dealing with alone. Or that it makes them weak. Or "less than." Or damaged. Or misfit. Or like they are lacking in something (faith, optimism, empathy, etc...).  I understand that those feelings of shame and such often are symptoms of the ailment themselves, but it's hard to see those you love struggling through those things.


I don't really have a point to this blog post. I don't know what my purpose is in writing it other than to say... if you think you need help -- seek it. Find out if you do. Whether that's a visit to your doctor, a therapist, an honest conversation with a friend or spouse, a regular exercise schedule, or (ideally) all of the above... do what you need to do to be happy. Because you deserve to be happy & you deserve to healthy in the truest aspect of the word.  You are worth that. You are worth feeling happy & accepted. Life is too wonderful to let it pass you by feeling mediocre or apathetic. And if you need me to push you to do what you need to do, just let me know. ;) I am so, so passionate about this topic that, even if you're a complete stranger reading this, I would love to help you however I can. Because what you're going through is not normal -- but isn't weird. And there are things that can be done to help you. Find out what you need.

You're tuning out because it hurts too much to try
You're giving up before you've had your chance to fly
Josh Groban - Hideaway

Thursday, March 6, 2014

cutting back.

Levi and I have been talking a lot about screens. Since we've moved we've noticed a huge rise in how often those around us have their noses in a screen. We were disappointed with how quickly we joined that trend. It's so nice, at the end of the day, to decompress with your phone and have, what I call, brain-dead time.


I've decided to cut back my screen time. I have always purposefully kept the games and social media apps on my phone to a minimum, but I feel like even the 2 that I do have can be all consuming. And I get pretty addicted to checking the news (nerd, I know). So, I am setting limits, and I'm putting them out their publicly so I am accountable. I only plan to do this for a few weeks, but I'm hoping the boundaries will last and I won't always have to be so strict.


  • When not in use, my phone will go on top of the fridge (out of sight out of mind concept)
  • I can only check FaceBook on my laptop (which I only go on every few days)
  • Instagram can only be checked 4 times a day. If I use up my "4 times" by nap time then oh, well!
  • Missed calls will only be returned during nap time (sorry!)
I've found that time limits don't work well for me. I lose track of time or add on 5 minutes until I've been at it for 45 extra! eek! 

What triggered all of this, you ask? Well, I have been thinking about our strict, strict rules for screen time with Eleanora & realized that I am no exception! I need boundaries & limits just like she does. my mom isn't in house to set those limits, so this lil mama has to set them!


Thursday, February 27, 2014

distracted.

All of the posts I start are so sporatic that I think the title to every post should just be "life lately" because I have a hard time finding any 1 theme to stick with per post, let alone the time to blog consistently enough that every post isn't just a huge dump of updates.

ha! 

yesterday was amazing. The sun was shining (In Utah! In February!) and it was warm. I laughed that Eleanora and I were feeling warm at 65, because just 8 weeks ago that would've been freezing to us. Acclimation is a wonderful thing, ain't it? 

It really was just one of those days that you should not be indoors. We headed out to storytime, then the park, grabbed some food through a window on the way home and attempted to have a picnic in the backyard... Right up until we realized we only had shade and it was literally 30 degrees cooler in the shade and we were frozen. So, we packed up and went to the table. After nap-time we ran a few errands and met up with my sissy pants, Katie. We grabbed cupcakes and met Levi for a late dinner (at about 7:30 -- yay tax season!) It was a fun day. The kind of day that you lay your head down and are just bushed. Exactly what I like to feel at the end of the day!

Then today a perfect re-coop day. it's been gray, drizzly, and rainy. We made popcorn, hot chocolate, and even squeezed in some lunch! 

It gets so easy to be distracted, as a mother. Between e-mail, instagram, CNN, and fox News it's so easy to not BE with Eleanora. I've been really trying to focus on just being with Eleanora. So, today when we've been cooped up and it's even easier to be distracted I've made a point to do things with her. From catch, to playing trains, to dollies... we've managed to have a very full day. Thank goodness, too! Now, if only it weren't tax season and Levi got off at 5:00, like usual.


Siggghhhh, tax widow woes. 



(sorry no pictures from our fun adventures yesterday. I've found the more fun I'm having the less pictures I take. Hahaha!)

Monday, February 17, 2014

I have something to tell you!

I miss blogging. I seem to have been swept up in life lately and the ease of instagram that I've really failed to put time into blogs. I read some blogs (always from my phone) if people post on instagram that they've made a post. But just yesterday I sat down at my computer (for the first time in about 3 months) to take care of some paper work and I was reunited with blogger. I forgot how fun it is to keep in touch with friends, old colleagues, etc... through blogs.
I need to write more.

So, here i am. Recommitting to blogging more.
The tale that has been sung time and time again by yours truly.

I never announced it on this blog because I felt so much pressure to come up with a really cute & original way but here goes: 

WE ARE EXPECTING BABY #2!

We literally could not be more excited than we already are for this little love. This pregnancy has been a 180 degrees different than my first. I keep forgetting I am even pregnant. Then I realize my tiredness & obliviousness & unprovoked sassiness are not my "norm"
and remember that my eggo is indeed preggo. 


I can't wait to have a second baby. We had wanted to have this one a little closer in age to Eleanora, but things just didn't work out that way. Now, I am so happy for that little extra amount of time I had. I am not overwhelmed by the thought of a newborn or sleepless night. I find myself actually missing those long first couple of months and wanting it again. It's been long enough that I have recovered. Now that Eleanora is over 2 she leans more toward toddler than baby in most ways. She still is reliant on us for most things, but there isn't much baby left in that 30 pound body of hers. I was able to really cherish the first little while with Eleanora and I can't wait to do it again.  I know that challenges will come with #2 that didn't arise with just having 1 but I am so excited for them. I can't wait to adjust to being a family of 4 and never look back. Eleanora is already excited about the baby in mama's tummy. I am so curious to see how she is as a sibling. 

This year certainly has a lot of major events ahead
and I am excited to have this major highlight on the calendar. :]


Here's a quick FYI with all the stats on this pregnancy:
How far along? 
16 weeks tomorrow. 
Due Date?
August 5, 2014
Feeling?
Good. A little sluggish and sometimes moody &; more sensitive than usual. But overall feeling really well!
Finding out the gender this time? 
We didn't find out the gender with E and it was such a great experience. We don't plan to this time, either. (I highly recommend giving it a try!)
What size is the baby now? 
About the size of an avocado (4.5 inches head to rump).
Movement yet? 
YES! And it's the craziest thing. with pregnancy #1 I didn't feel E move until after about 20 weeks. I felt this little tyke move at about 14.5 weeks! It's been so fun!

We are so excited & can't wait to meet this little miss or mister.  It's going to be a real party!


Thursday, February 6, 2014

aching

Wow! The past month and a half has been quite the whirlwind! Apparently, I failed to mention on our blog that we moved from Hawaii to Utah in December. It happened so quickly and swiftly that I barely had time to blink before it was all done. Levi accepted a position in Salt Lake and here we are!

Last week my sweet grandma passed away. She had a long, hard road to her passing and I'm glad to know that she is, for the first time in far too long, not in pain. She lived a great life and truly left behind an amazing legacy. She taught me so many wonderful life lessons. Like how to be a free thinker, that people always matter more than things, that sparkly things are a really great, and that family is what really matters. i feel blessed to have known her for such a large portion of my life. But, it still feels too short. My world feels a little more empty without her and I ache to see her again. I miss her and can't wait to be reunited with her someday.


I am grateful we were able to spend Christmas with my Grandma and Grandpa & for technology. FaceTime and phone calls made being away during her illness and passing a lot more bearable. 

We love you, Grandma! 



Wednesday, January 22, 2014

MLK day


For Martin Luther King Day we went to the zoo! Katie and Tyson invited us. Bonnie had the day off and Levi took a half day. It was so fun! One thing E and I have been seriously missing is getting outside! It was so nice to breathe some fresh air and explore a little bit!

Ever since a terrifying experience at the zoo in Honolulu Miss E had been beyond terrified of monkeys. She was able to make amends with the monkey here and we haven't had any mentioning of monkeys since! (Thank the heavens!)

We spent a lot of time in with the giraffes. Eleanora sure loved them. She is still telling me all about their long necks. 


Then, naturally, they had a carousel. Now Eleanora can't stop saying "I wide giwaffe!" I think that carousel might've been her highlight. Wait, they did have some random chickens she loved. And a tractor! ;)

We had so much fun & I think it's safe to say we will {soon} be returning!